Ok guys, get your mind out of the gutter. Let me tell you the story first then you'll understand the title. Anyway, this last year or so Jared has been acting out his dreams. For example, he had a dream about 7 months ago that he was fighting this guy and he went to kick him in his dream, but really he kicks me, hard!
Me: (in shock) Jared, what's your problem? That freaken hurt!
Jared: Oh my gosh, honey, I'm so sorry! Are you ok?
Me: You just kicked me really hard, why would you do that?
Jared: I was fighting this guy in my dream, I guess I did it in my sleep.
Me: I can't believe that just happened! You kicked me! (still in shock)
Jared: I honestly didn't mean to, I can't help what I dream about.
Me: I know, I just can't believe you did that.
That was the first time he acted out his dream. The 2nd time I woke up to him about to tackle me. Lucky for me he woke up before he did tackle me. He said that he was dreaming about playing football and he was going to tackle this guy that was making him mad. The 3rd time was a couple of months ago and in his dream he got into another fight. Well, guess what, he punches me! This time I wasn't as nice, so I punched him back. (ok, I swear we do not have an abusive relationship) I tell him that I'm not feeling safe sleeping with him anymore and maybe we need to get this checked out. Which sounds so strange, but if you were me, the one getting hit in the middle of the night, wouldn't you consider it too? Well, everything was fine, he hasn't acted out his dreams in a few months until last night. I wake up to him punching the air. I'm like, "crap not again," and I move away from him so he doesn't start swinging at me. I yell his name a couple of times until he wakes up and stops punching the air. When he wakes up he's like "why are you out of bed?" I reply, "So you won't hit me. What were you dreaming about?" He said that he was punching a wall down.
As strange as this sounds I'm really considering not sleeping in the same bed with him anymore. I know it's not his fault and he can't help it, but I really don't like getting hit in the middle of the night. He also hits hard, too. So, people, what should I do? What if he has a dream that he's choking someone or something really bad? It's a really weird situation that I don't know exactly what to do. What would you do?
8 years ago
5 holla backs:
I've so got tears in my eyes from laughing so hard! Hey! Maybe you deserve it! LOL!
Oh my gosh That would be Funny if it wasnt so scary! I would take dale to a sleep doc. or something that is so weird. I have never seen it happen in real life.... only on movies! WOW!
I meant I would take Dale to a doctor if it was him doing it! You might have understood but it sounded too wierd to me! ha ha
Maybe he has some kind of sleep apnea. You should get it checked out, there's a sleep disorder center by Banner Desert. I wouldn't want to have explain a black eye to people, even if you ended up fighting back and gave it to him haha!
That is funny! Well I guess not for you but since I am not the one getting beat up it is funny! Sorry! And that is so funny with Skye covered in poop! Jaxon pooped in the bath the other day and was so freaked out by it and was convinced it was dog poop, he didn't understand it was his own poop!
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